Monday 20 October 2014

The Five Secrets of not only Success but Life.

Everyone wants to be successful in life, but not many are aware of what success really is.
Success is an attitude, not just a phenomenon.
Tough situations arise in every business, every organization, and you need skills to handle them. These skills come from our inner space, which I call the Spiritual Space.
There are five ingredients for success:
1. Establishing a congenial atmosphere: Peace and prosperity are interlinked. Prosperity cannot flourish in a disturbed atmosphere. While working with others, you need to function as a team. Have a sense of respect for your team members, and do not indulge in blame games. As a team leader, you need to create an atmosphere of trust, cooperation, a sense of belonging, and celebration. Nothing can last if the focus is only on productivity and net result.
2. Skill in action: The whole essence of the Bhagavad Gita is to act without being attached to the fruit of the action. If you can manage your mind in a war-like scenario, then you can manage any situation. This skill in action is called yoga. It is this wisdom of yoga that transforms one's attitude from arrogance to self-confidence; from meekness to humility; from the burden of dependence to the realization of interdependence; from a limited ownership to oneness with the whole. When performing action, if the attention is only on the end result, then you can't perform. Just give yourself fully to the task with 100 percent sincerity and commitment.

3. Being courageous like a lion: There is a saying in Sanskrit that says, "Great wealth comes to one who has the courage of a lion and who puts in all his efforts." Passion and dispassion are complementary like the in-breath and out-breath. You breathe in but you cannot hold the breath too long; you have to breathe out. Similarly, you need to have passion to make things work but also the dispassion to let go. When you don't crave for abundance, it comes to you.
4. An atom of luck: If all that is needed for prosperity is one's own effort, then why are so many people who put effort not prosperous? This unknown factor or luck is enhanced by spirituality. The whole material world is run by a world of vibrations which is subtler than all that we see. Spirituality enhances intelligence and intuition. Intuition comes to you when you balance your passion with dispassion; profit with service; aggressiveness to get things with compassion to give back to the society. Intuition is the right thought at the right time, and is an important component for success in business.
5. Meditation: The greater responsibilities and ambitions you have, greater is the need for you to meditate. In ancient times, meditation was used as a way to find the Self, for enlightenment and to overcome misery and problems. Meditation is all the more essential in today's hectic lifestyle full of stress and tension. Stress is too much to do, too little time, and no energy. It can be difficult to reduce your workload, or increase the time that you have, but you can increase your energy level.
Meditation not only relieves you of stress and strain, it also enhances your abilities, strengthens your nervous system and mind and releases toxins from the body. We are made up of both matter and spirit. The body has some material needs and our spirit is nourished by spirituality. Meditation also helps us get in touch with our inner space - the source of joy, peace, and love.
The sign of success is overwhelming joy, confidence, compassion, generosity, and a smile that none can snatch away. Whatever happens in life, if you can keep these, then you have really found success.

Wednesday 15 October 2014

What I gathered from our first meeting on 29th Sep....

Hello GJ Mentees.....

Correct me if I have understood you wrongly?
What came out of first meeting is as mentioned here:
The areas in which you want me to work with you -

Karan Gupta - Communication Effectiveness
Kindly look at http://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships/effective-communication.htm and come to me after reading this please.

Himanshu G - Career in Banking
Please see http://www.banknetindia.com/jobs/carbank.htm and http://www.bankingcareersinfo.com/
Meet me after going thro'

Harpreet - Learn new skills
Organise table tennis matches any day this week between 4 and 5 between the mentees
Make a plan and discuss with me....

Himanshu S - Professional conduct in meetings
Look at http://www.businessinsider.in/10-Etiquette-Rules-For-Meetings-That-Every-Professional-Should-Know/articleshow/26227178.cms
See me after this and then you have to conduct a meeting of Mentees next week

Karan  Garg - How to open up and be more interactive
Read this http://www.healthyplace.com/relationships/healthy-relationships/how-to-open-up-and-reveal-yourself-to-others/
See me after this

Harsimrat - English Speaking
Watch BBC news or NDTV news for 2 days and meet me to discuss few latest news in English

Kuljeet - Confidence building
Read this http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201404/build-your-self-esteem-these-3-simple-exercises
Meet me after that....

Kartikey - How to Interact with new people
Read this http://www.healthyplace.com/relationships/healthy-relationships/how-to-open-up-and-reveal-yourself-to-others/
See me after this You and Karan Garg can come together

Karan P - Join one club please? Credit System at GJ
Come to me anytime and I will either organise a meeting or explain it myself

Kajal - Spoken English
Practice on http://www.talkenglish.com/
Meet me when you have done few lessons....

Komal - Join one club please? Confidence building
Read this http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201404/build-your-self-esteem-these-3-simple-exercises
Meet me after that.... You and Kuljeet can come together

Kunal - Written and Spoken English
Practice on http://www.talkenglish.com/
Meet me when you have done few lessons....You and Kajal can come together

Harpreet - Need to meet you as just got the form and never had the chance to sit with you. Can come anytime

Well friends let us make a start and make this happen for ourselves.....
I am learning Are you???????

Cheers....
Gurdeepak....





Tuesday 14 October 2014

Prosperity begins with a state of mind...........

Yes.....
Prosperity begins with a state of mind...... That's attitude.....

You all are welcome to this blog of GJMentees2014 under the Mentor ship Program.
I welcome Karan G, Himanshu G, Harpreet, Himanshu S, Kamal, Harsimrat, Kuljeet, Kartikey, Karan P, Kajal, Komal, Kunal and Harpreet.
You all are the petals of this flower "GJMentees".
We all will learn from each other and this platform will give us the opportunity to share and grow from here.
I am your Mentor and from whatsoever I have learned from my life so far, I will try to contribute to this forum.

Platform is open and you can share any issue, problem, suggestion, comment provided it is for the benefit of Mentees and may relate to Academics, life, hobbies, career or attitude.

Remember we always remain learners but the level has to go up.

This platform has been created to build your career and more to make your life better.....

So do share your views, your apprehensions on this forum as it will only be between us. In case you want to come to me personally/ individually feel free any time. You can come to me with any problem and do sometimes come to share good things too.....

I will always be there to guide you, to help you and to make you a better person....

Keep sharing and writing on this blog please....

Please fill your personal details on the blog along with your picture for us to understand each other in a better way.

Cheers.....
Gurdeepak.....